by: Carlin Day
Ladders are created to take you places higher than you can reach on your own. I recently came across a ladder that can improve listening skills. John Maxwell uses the following ladder to increase the listening skills of a leader.
L -Look at the speaker
A– Ask questions
D – Don’t interrupt
D – Don’t change the subject
E – Check your emotions
R – Responsive listening
Not everyone is a great listener. This includes me. I am trying to be a better listener. At my house, we have kids who are not the best listeners. They prove to me that the LADDER acronym can improve listening skills.
L – Looking
When my kids do not want to listen, they always look away
A- Ask questions
If they are listening, they always ask questions. Why, Why, Why, Why, Why, Why, Why, What, etc.
D – Don’t Interrupt
My kids always interrupt. It is really hard for them to not interrupt. If they do not interrupt soon, another kid will interrupt and steal their chance
D- Don’t change the subject
It is hard for kids to not change the subject because they really want to tell me about the latest episode of puppy dog pals. Bingo and Rolly are always up to something.
E- check your emotions
If you are crying about something off subject, it needs to be checked. My kids have a hard time not crying about snacks or drinks!
R- Responsive listening
My kids will show excitement if I am sharing some great news. Otherwise their response is usually negative because it is something they do not want to hear. It is much more fun to share news to kids who are excited. Example: (Hey guys, remember in Puppy Dog Pals when Bob lost his favorite shirt at the dry cleaners?)
The LADDER acronym will help anyone get better at the habit of listening. Lets all become better listeners. Listening is a skill and skills are necessary in Elevating value.
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Puppy Dog Pals is a show that my boys like
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